
Doris C. Smith
August 9, 1931 – December 29, 2019
In accordance with her wishes, cremation will take place and a private family service will be held at a later date. Memorial contributions may be made to SPCA of Southwest Michigan.
Obituary
Doris left this earth to join her loved ones in heaven during the early hours of December 29, 2019. She was born in Saginaw, MI on August 9, 1931, the daughter of the late John E. and Frances G. (Prueter) Rethman. On December 13, 1952, Doris married the love of her life, Wesley Al Smith, who sadly preceded her in death on October 31, 1983. She was a soft-spoken lady, who didn\'t speak unkindly of others and looked for the positives rather than the negatives. Doris had many talents such as drawing, painting, and writing. She also knew her way around the kitchen and had at one time thoughts of opening her own bakery. She had the patience of a saint and the kindness to match. In addition to her family, Doris adored her many feline children over the years. She worked for the village of Paw Paw as the clerk for numerous years until relocating to Kalamazoo. She then worked for Lamplighter Electrical for over 30 years until she retired at the age of 86. Doris was a kind, giving, and nurturing soul who was a mother figure to many. She will be missed immensely by all who knew her. Doris was also preceded in death by her daughter, Connie Garman; grandsons, Anthony Garman and Mitchell W. Smith; brother, Robert Rethman and sister, Kathleen Kowaleski. She leaves behind to cherish her memory two daughters, Diane (Dave) Wiersma and Lynn Lyon and son, Jason (Valerie) Smith; grandchildren, David (Shelley) Warncke, Elizabeth and Travis Garman, Madelyn (James) Ballantyne, Rachel Buck and Lindsey Trepka; great-grandchildren, Landon, Hayden, Wesley, Brantley, Finley, Vayda and Walter; brothers, Jerry (Judy) and John (Stephanie) Rethman; sister, Judy Glesmer and several nieces and nephews.
Mom touched many people with her gentle kindness throughout her life. I was the first born and she was mumma to myself and Connie until Connie and I decided we should start using mom so we would sound more grown up. She is still mumma to me. In our early years she would plan and host wonderful, Pintrest worthy parties for our birthdays, Halloween, spring, and any other occasion that could use a party. She was so creative and adventurous. Always willing to try the latest, she had a craft of the month club so we would have all the latest seasonal décor. I remember being fascinated with her high heels that were covered in fabric to match a specific dress. How could that be? I loved the matching mother daughter dresses that we had and I didn’t understand why she wouldn’t want to wear them every time we went somewhere. When I was about 6 or 7 they purchased a piano for me to have lessons which I did enjoy, but what I really liked was to listen to her play the songs that were popular when her and daddy were dating and first married. As my youngest siblings, Lynn and Jason came along there was less time for parties and crafts, but she still made time for the whole family and always took care of us. The larger house we needed also had a larger yard where she planted and maintained a large, really beautiful flower garden. As I am sure others who were touched by her will, I am thankful for these personal memories that I will forever keep with me.
I am glad to have had the opportunity to know Doris. She was a great lady. My sincere condolences to the family.