
Everett \"Butch\" R. Hayden
October 22, 1943 – September 24, 2020
In accordance with the current restrictions, the family wishes to have a celebration of life for Butch in the near future when his family and friends can all be together. To honor Butch’s love of nature and specifically bird and wildlife preservations, please consider gifts to his name to the Kalamazoo Audubon Society, the Kalamazoo Nature Center or a nature conservancy of your choosing, care of the funeral home.
Obituary
Our hearts are broken as we share the devastating new of our dad’s passing on September 23, 2020. Everett Raymon Hayden, known to everyone as Butch, passed away after suffering the overwhelming effects of a recent coronavirus diagnosis. Most days you would find Butch enjoying his 20-year retirement with his wife, hard at work in their beautiful gardens or tackling home projects. Whether it be electrical work, plumbing or woodworking, he was adept at any task and always willing to help out when someone needed a hand. His grandchildren were all grateful recipients of his beautiful, handmade toys, which he delighted in making and presenting. Butch was an avid nature lover, an occasional fisherman and golfer. He thoroughly enjoyed helping with his dear friend and son-in-law, Eric Jasiak, mow greens at his golf course. He adored playing with his little dog, Mac and spending part of the winter in Navarre, Florida, where he and his wife made many “snowbird” friendships. Butch was born in Muncie, Indiana on October 22, 1943, to Mary and Everett Hayden. He grew up with his sister, Marjorie in a lively and loving home on Janney Avenue, which was filled with visits from aunts, uncles, cousins and friends. He loved regaling his children and grandchildren with his many funny childhood adventures and youthful mischief. He attended Muncie Central High School and Ball State University. He served in the Indiana National Guard. Butch met his wife, Rosemary, when she was a BSU student on a spring day in 1962. They married in 1966 and became parents to three daughters, Amy and twins, Leslie and Lisa. Butch was a lifelong railroad man. Beginning his career as an engineer with the Erie Railroad in Huntington, Indiana. He later moved into management with Conrail and ended his professional life with Norfolk Southern Railway. His work necessitated moves to Kalamazoo and then Detroit, Michigan with Butch retiring from railroading back in Kalamazoo. Butch and his wife were sad to leave their many friends in Indiana, but they were proud to have maintained their long-distance relationships and lifelong connections to friends in both Michigan and Indiana. Butch was a beloved husband, father, grandfather and friend. He is survived by his loving wife of 54 years, Rosemary Paoletto Hayden; daughters, Amy (George) Patramanis, Leslie Ballentine and Lisa (Eric) Jasiak; grandchildren, Abigail Jasiak, Nick Jasiak, Olivia Ballentine, Madeline Patramanis, Cecilia Patramanis and Lily Patramanis; his sister, Marjorie (Hayden) Salisbury and his many adoring nieces and nephews. He was preceded in death by his father, Farrell Everett Hayden and his mother, Mary Katherine Hayden.
I worked with Butch when he was a road foreman in Detroit. We were both at Monroe yard getting a train out. After we got it out I notice that I had locked my keys in my truck. He drove me to my house to get my other set of keys and back to Monroe about a 40 mile round trip. He was one of the nicest managers I have ever work with.
One of the happiest guys I have ever met. He always had a smile and a story for ya. Even though we have moved away Butch always made time for our family. He will be greatly missed. Our condolences go out to Rose and his daughters.
We are in shock and so very saddened about Butch’s death. We are so sorry for your loss! Butch was such a sweet, kind man and we so valued him and Rose as great neighbors when they lived in Schoolcraft.
Dad, I miss you more than I can ever say. Thank for being the best dad ever. I love you with all my heart. Les
The Hayden Family will always have a special place in the hearts of the Michel Family, who were so lucky to have lived across the street from this beautiful family. Butch is a very sweet soul. He always had a smile and had a way of making one smile as well. Our thoughts and prayers go out to all who knew him as he will be missed. Rose and Family know that we carry you in our hearts and will keep you in prayers!
To Rose, Leslie, Lisa, Amy, and families…we were saddened to hear about Mr. Hayden’s death. We didn’t see him often but whenever we did he always greeted you with a big smile and a hearty handshake. Please accept our sincerest condolences and know that we are thinking of all of you at this time.
I knew Butch a short time he was good man and loved his family so much He will always have a place in my heart
Leslie & Liv, We never saw your dad/grandpa without a big smile on his face. He seemed like someone who had a zest for life. Our hearts are breaking for you and your family. Please know you are in our thoughts during this difficult time.
It wasn’t that long ago it seems like that You were Jogging back and forth on YZ Avenue everyday !!!! Or we would drive by your house and see You out in Your Garden !!! Always a Very Busy Guy and always ready to stop and chat……. You will be Missed Very Much what a Great Neighbor You were . We both moved to the North side of Schoolcraft and would see each other at Meijers …..Our Prayers go out to the Entire Family…..You were a very Special Guy and now You will Be in Gods Garden and Busy helping him Everyday!!!! Our sympathy to Rose, Girls, and Grandchildren…..You are in our Prayers…… Cheryl & Gene Ehrhardt………Daman & Eska’s Parents…..