Harlow Lee Steffey
April 19, 1930 – April 11, 2018
In accordance with his wishes cremation will take place and a memorial celebration will be held on Saturday, April 21, 2018, at 11:00 AM, at Immanuel Lutheran Church, 631 Grand Street in Allegan.
Obituary
Age 87, passed away at Borgess Medical Center on April 11, 2018, after a courageous battle with cancer. He was born in Kalamazoo on April 19, 1930, the son of the late Harlow L.C. and Dorothy E. (Marlette) Steffey. Harlow was a kind and loving man who was a joy to know. On September 7, 1950, he married the love of his life Dorothy M. (Darnell) Steffey; they remained united for more than 67 years. He was a hard worker who retired from Checker Motors after 44 years of service. After retiring Harlow would spend his summers working part-time at Crestview Golf Course. He loved to play golf and made many friends around the clubhouse. Harlow and his wife, Dorothy also enjoyed wintering in Myrtle Beach, South Carolina, where they met many lifelong friends. He was very handy and a gifted woodworker. He had a strong faith and was a member of Immanuel Lutheran Church in Allegan. Above all Harlow loved his family. He was a loving and dedicated husband, father, grandfather and great-grandfather who leaves behind the legacy of a life well lived. He is survived by his wife Dorothy; four children, Harlow B. (Sally) Steffey, Jane L. (Stanley) Janco, Harold J. Steffey and Patrick J. (Kelly Westfield) Steffey; seven grandchildren, Kevin (Courtney Morris) and Brendan (Cass) Steffey, Adam Janco, Jenny and Derek (Tracie Lyniec) Steffey, Patrick and Shelbea (Troy Pickett) Steffey; four great-grandchildren, Cameron, Brooke, Ally and his youngest special great-grandson, Hunter; a brother, Howard (Sally) Steffey; sister, Gail Leggitt; a sister-in-law, Linda (Fred) Bryan; nieces, nephews; special extended family, Dr. Michael (Theresa) Ku and their son, Bryson Ku; his caring and special cardiologist Dr. Stephen Peck; many close friends. He was also preceded in passing by a grandson, Daren J. Steffey and brother, Douglas H. Steffey. The family would like to thank all the staff on 8 North at Borgess Hospital for their amazing care during Harlow’s final days.
Harlow What a great Man! My prayers are with you
Harlow What a great Man! My prayers are with you
Harlow, My sympathies to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers.
Harlow, My sympathies to you and your family. I will keep you in my prayers.
What an amazing human being my Sister brought into my life when I was a year old. He was there always as I was growing up and as an adult we have shared so many wonderful memories, fun times, card games, trips and lots, and lots of laughs. It was a blessed relationship to both Fred and I as a cherished “brother” and uncle to Laura & Chris and great uncle to Cait, Noah, & Lily & Luke. He will never be able to be replaced but his love and kindness will be with us always. Our love and prayers go out to my Sister Dottie and family.
What an amazing human being my Sister brought into my life when I was a year old. He was there always as I was growing up and as an adult we have shared so many wonderful memories, fun times, card games, trips and lots, and lots of laughs. It was a blessed relationship to both Fred and I as a cherished “brother” and uncle to Laura & Chris and great uncle to Cait, Noah, & Lily & Luke. He will never be able to be replaced but his love and kindness will be with us always. Our love and prayers go out to my Sister Dottie and family.
Cousin Harlow was a good and kind man. The salt of the earth. Condolences and love to Dottie and all the family and friends who will miss him dearly.
Cousin Harlow was a good and kind man. The salt of the earth. Condolences and love to Dottie and all the family and friends who will miss him dearly.
Cousin Harlow was a good and kind man. The salt of the earth. Condolences and love to Dottie and all the family and friends who will miss him dearly.
Cousin Harlow was a good and kind man. The salt of the earth. Condolences and love to Dottie and all the family and friends who will miss him dearly.
Harold & Family, Sorry to hear of Harlow’s passing.
Blessings and love to the family of this sweet man who loved his family and was a wonderful husband, .father and friend. Although he will be tremendously missed, he is at peace and the memories of him, in time, will serve to console you.
I’ve only had the pleasure of meeting Harlow about two and a half years ago, but in that time I’ve probably laughed more than ever. My nick name for him was Carmel, but it’s too long a story to tell. Harlow and Dottie watched over me when I was ill. They were always there. Harlow could do any task you put before him and I don’t think he ever met a stranger. I’m sure his wings were waiting for him when he got to Heaven and now he has a clear view of every one to watch over them. He fought hard, but God needed him too. He will surely be missed by all that knew and loved him. R.I.P. Carmel, Love ya, Lou