
Micheal De Graffenried
March 17, 1959 – February 6, 2021
A virtual celebration to honor Micheal’s life, (YouTube), will take place on his birth anniversary, Wednesday, March 17, 2021 at 7:00 pm EST. The link to join the Youtube memorial is: https://youtu.be/3NqcgABf2mw. Please feel free to join in to celebrate Micheal’s life with others. Family and friends are encouraged to leave a favorite memory or condolence.
Obituary
Micheal De Graffenried, age 61, passed away on Saturday, February 6, 2021 following a lengthy illness. He was born in Buffalo, New York on March 17, 1959, the son of John Willie and Viola (Whitmore) De Graffenried. After receiving his Master’s Degree in Public Administration, Micheal attended a year of law school. Micheal’s career focus was in governmental operations, education, and human services. He subsequently served in a variety of administrative roles in Fort Worth, Texas, Kalamazoo, Cassopolis, and Muskegon Heights, Michigan. He truly enjoyed his vocation and was loved and respected by his supervisors and peers. On October 19, 1991, Micheal married Delonda (Gant) and they most recently celebrated 29 years of marriage. He and Delonda’s happiest moment was the day their beloved daughter, Rebecca LeeAnne was born. Her birth was a treasured gift that brought so much joy to their world! Together, Micheal and Delonda spent their careers helping and serving others, while being actively involved in ministry in area churches. They served as Founding Members of Resurrection Life Church, (now Radiant Church of Richland), and most recently at The Rock, in Kalamazoo. Micheal was a very kind, generous and faith-filled man, who took very seriously his calling to serve God, and God’s people. The foundations of his values were strong and were instilled in Micheal and his five siblings by his parents, and he deeply loved them all. Micheal’s relationship with the Lord, served as the source of his strength, joy and foundation of his character. He impacted lives, leaving an indelible imprint on the hearts of many. Those who knew Micheal, often described him as “One of a kind.” Micheal was preceded in death by his father, John Willie De Graffenried and his brother, John De Graffenried. He leaves to cherish his memory, his wife, Delonda, their daughter Rebecca LeeAnne De Graffenried, both of Kalamazoo, his mother, Viola De Graffenried, his sisters, Christine and Mary De Graffenried of Buffalo, NY; Verneda Knight of Fayetteville, NC, brother Kenny (Evelyn) De Graffenried of Buffalo, NY, several nieces, nephews, cousins and other extended family members. In accordance with his wishes, cremation has taken place.
Michael was a loving husband and father. He will be missed. I will keep his family in my thoughts and prayers.
Dear Delonda and Family, One day, Jesus will wipe away all our tears and their will an unfatjomable joy as we stand together reunited with those we love in the glory of God. Until then, we grieve and mourn our loss. Please know as you grieve, we grieve. We pray for you to feel Gods love and peace during this sad time. We love you!
What I will always remember about Micheal was his huge welcoming smile and his warm, caring heart. He was big in stature but even bigger in character. He loved God, Delonda and Becca with every fiber of his being! And that love also spilled over to others. I know he heard “Well done thy good and faithful servant.”
A truly amazing man of God. Blessed are those who morn for they shall be comforted ~sharon
Such a great man of God, Michael will be missed very much by all. My thoughts and prayers go out to Delonda & Rebecca and all of the family & friends.
Rest in Peace My Brother.
Our hearts go out to your family. We send our love Prayers and condolences. Lisa Kendel and Beverly Cheatham
Sending my love and prayers to my family. GOD will comfort you all through this sorrow time. I love you all.
Mike my brother, I’m blessed to had worked with you. You will be missed.
You were a good, Godly man that will be missed very much.
To Michael’s family: I was a classmate and teammate of Michael at Nichols School in Buffalo … we graduated together in 1977. He was a GREAT guy, great athlete in football and basketball … and great teammate. One of the finest human beings I have ever met. My condolences to you all. John Meegan
Dear Micheal, It has been an honor knowing you and sharing precious moments with you. You were a great friend; always a source of encouragement – to me, and to my family. You always had a warm smile and a kind word. We miss you and wish you could spend more time in this world. But I believe you are in a better place now, resting and smiling with The Lord whom you honored while with us. I pray that God comforts and strengthens all those you have left behind. Till we meet again… Rest in perfect peace. ‘Pade.
Dear Micheal, It has been an honor knowing you and sharing precious moments with you. You were a great friend; always a source of encouragement – to me, and to my family. You always had a warm smile and a kind word. We miss you and wish you could spend more time in this world. But I believe you are in a better place now, resting and smiling with The Lord whom you honored while with us. I pray that God comforts and strengthens all those you have left behind. Till we meet again… Rest in perfect peace. ‘Pade.
Dear Micheal, It has been an honor knowing you and sharing precious moments with you. You were a great friend; always a source of encouragement – to me, and to my family. You always had a warm smile and a kind word. We miss you and wish you could spend more time in this world. But I believe you are in a better place now, resting and smiling with The Lord whom you honored while with us. I pray that God comforts and strengthens all those you have left behind. Till we meet again… Rest in perfect peace. ‘Pade.