Aged 71 of Mattawan passed away Thursday evening, March 13, 2025. Barbara was born in Kalamazoo on December 7, 1953, the daughter of Wayne and Shirley (Wolff) Selner. On June 25, 1990, she married Kevin H. Wilder who survives her. Barbara was an avid craft person. Nothing was more important to her than spending time with her grandchildren and great-grandchildren. Besides her husband, Barbara is survived by her children, Shawn Selner of Kalamazoo, Joan White-Selner of Bangor; five grandchildren, including a special granddaughter, Orion; three great-grandchildren; mother, Shirley Selner; brothers, Edwin “Goat” Selner, Andy (Karen Wilder) Selner; several nieces and nephews; and countless friends. Barbara was preceded in death by her father; and a brother Harold Selner.